Fall semester 2023 has ended. It was a rough semester, but now it’s time to recharge and reprioritize.
SONG INSPIRATION
On My Mama (single) by Victoria Monet
END OF THE SEMESTER
Despite a difficult semester marred by tragedies near and far, I am forced to reflect on my achievements. This isn’t toxic positivity, but rather an exercise in taking stock of the positive since our minds are predisposed to fixate on the negative. OK – this was a semester of firsts. First semester I’ve taught an upper-level course (volcanology to 15 fantastic students). First time I’ve applied to 20 academic positions during a job cycle. First time I was second author on a manuscript. No wonder I’m severely burned out. I worked my ass off professionally and personally. I invested in my relationships and prioritized personal growth. It wasn’t easy at times. Sometimes I was sad, lonely, disillusioned, or angry. But I pushed forward thanks to a strong (mostly remote) social network, healthy coping mechanisms, and a solid group of motivated students.
SNOWBIRDING
I wouldn’t be a true Northerner, if I didn’t flee the dark and dreary winter. This winter will be my first time as a “snowbird”, a term I used to apply to the extra people clogging the freeways of the southwest during the winter months. While I don’t mind the cold, the overcast skies and short daylight hours are too much for my seasonal affective disorder. I’ve learned that I need sunlight. As a result, I’m fleeing to the southwest, far east, and southeast during winter break. I’m anxious to catch up with friends, ring in the new year at a crowded temple, and experience my first writing retreat. However, it’s not all one big vacation. Being away doesn’t exonerate me from my many duties which include meetings, advising, research, etc.
CHRISTMAS AND NEW YEAR’S
All I want for Christmas is to spend time with people I love and not count calories. I haven’t had much time to think about Christmas, but I’ve finally started shopping and making concrete social plans. Admittedly, Christmas in the southwest feels less wintery than back East. But I’ve created my own traditions – movies, lights, pop-up bars, festive desserts, and concerts. I admit I’m a sucker for holiday cheer. In addition to my usual gift giving, I’ve also gifted myself with a trip to Japan the day after Christmas. It’s an opportunity to strengthening international friendships, explore Tokyo, Kyoto, and Fukuoka, and practice the language. I’m particularly excited to shake up my NYE tradition. Tis the season, I suppose.
END OF THE YEAR
2023 has been real and at times fun, but it ain’t been real fun. There’s a lot to be thankful for and a lot that we’d all rather forget. As usual, I’ll spend the final weeks of the year in reflection while articulating aspirations for the new year. I am so thankful for my family, friends, and career. And I’m thankful for myself – that sounds weird, but it shouldn’t. I’m proud of myself. I’ve worked hard to get here – here, being my mental, physical, and emotional state. Just like any year 2024 promises a slew of challenges and opportunities.
CURRENT SHOWS AND BOOKS
Recently finished: Castlevania: Nocturne; Disenchantment (s5); The Great British Baking Show (s11-US); The Great British Baking Show: Holidays (s6); Loki (s3); Lupin (s3); Sex Education (s4)
Currently watching: Detective Conan (s31); Silo; The Amazing World of Gumball (s3); The Watcher
Recently finished reading: To Be Taught, If Fortunate
Currently reading: A Modern History of Japan; Aurora
Happy Holidays and thank you for reading! My next blog is scheduled for Thursday, January 11th. Spend time with loved ones and take some time for yourself. Until next time….
The Planetary Novelist 